“Never regret being a good person to the wrong people. Your behaviour says everything about you, and their behaviour says enough about them.” – Marc & Angel Chernoff
These true words…to enlighten and to firstly remind one, that truly resonates with one’s inner self..x
“Good people are like candles; they burn themselves up to give others light.”
Though, from giving all that light, what was or is there left for me…? With that, I then remembered that burnt-out feeling. Leading to I remember the frustrations. I remember the disappointments. I remember the hurt. I remember the pain. I remember the sabotages. I remember the anxiousness and so on…
There are some, few, many that will come into your life, not only for fun, casual, amusing, joyous, entertainment purposes, but those few thrown in there in the mix, to really test you; to test your mind, heart and spirit as a whole. And behind it all my dear, it’s all a blessing in disguise. As difficult as it seems, it’s a blessing. And honestly, a true reminder for oneself. ..x
“Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.” – Thema Davis
Now those life tests can come in different forms. Well firstly, it seems everyone wants to be heard, to show their worth; others will show this by loudly vocalizing with their whole presence for the sake of doing it or needing to often prove something, whilst others will have other ways, and so each to their own…way.
But the thing is, I have learnt that those who are actually worthy of meeting and being around worthy people themself, is rare. Simply put. Not everyone deserves to be around the presence of genuinely good, hearted people, why? Because they don’t know how to treat these rare inner beauties with care and genuine love (whether they are seen as an aquaintance, a neighbour, a mutual friend, a family member, a partner etc and so on…).
“The problem is people don’t cherish good people, they try to use them.”
When one’s heart, mind, body and soul do not match nor align with yours, then my dear, leave. Kindly exit yourself or at least distance yourself from the situation or the presence of others. You are a gem, a diamond, a unique rarity and you are worth more than meets the eye and the way you are either overlooked, dismissed, denied, ignored or even undermined, shows the lack of quality that is within other’s, or within their own insecurities and how far they can actually see one’s quality.
“Your higher vibe attracts your small yet wonderful tribe.”
So keep going humbly, shining with faith, gratitude and humilty for you for others. How it was always meant to be. Those that resonote and align with you will always make way to you in its natural form and essence…because there is no need for any effort there. It is all already genuine, raw and your heart and spirit will naturally feel the heart and spirit of the other alike.
“Saying yes to happiness means learning to say no to the people and things that stress you out.”
And when’s heart, mind, body and soul matches and aligns with yours, then you are all immediately intact and are more stonger and willfull. Stay close to those indeed, special ones…you all can continue to humbly shine together.
“When someone helps you and they are struggling too, that’s not help that’s love.”
Now I always say to my family and my close friends, that there is always someone for someone, whether it is a new friend, or a partner; people will always vibe off of one and other; the way they are and how they treat themselves and sometimes when they cannot align with their own inner selves, then they may perhaps seek it in the wrong places… oh I must admit, I have been there once or twice or so myself too.
Further clear, wonderful reminders for one, is that:
“Good people end up with good people.”
“No matter how good a person you are, there will always be someone crititcizing you.”
“People who shine from within don’t need the spotlight.”
“You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to other people.”
Just breathe, feel, experience, heal, grow, love over fear, simplify and keep going..x
-With love, T (Tania Tenni Talks)